I am fully aware that I am a woman, and I could never possibly understand a man in his entirety, I'm not a man. I get it. But I love men, they're great, even the not so good ones.. Still great. I watch them, talk to them, deal with him, whether indirectly or directly. Business, personal, family, friend, lover. I take notes and observations of every man I've ever encounte(red). I watched boys become men.. And boys stay boys. But men will be men. Anything I have on file for men is filled in by men.. I have a separate folder for women, but their opinion of men doesn't matter to me... It will never be 100% accurate. My observations will never be 100% accurate, I am a woman, certain things I'll never fully get.. I get it. But this is why it's MY observations.. I'm not passing it as fact, but I've noticed this and if you want to prove me wrong, I'm going to need facts because everything I've witnessed for myself supports my observation.
#1: MAN CAN'T BE WITHOUT A WOMAN.
Yes. Admit it. We know it already. Even gay men can't stay away and we can't even get them aroused...
God made Adam, and he gave him the earth as a home... Adam could've went on an expedition.. Probably went swimming, trained a few animals.. All kinds of shit. Anyway, Adam got lonely :( he felt empty.. God told him, nah you just hungry, go eat some fruit..leave me alone I have work to do... Adam kept on about his perfect companion, so God got ti(red) of his nagging, swiftly punched him in the ribs, he fell out from impact.. (God didn't want him to see where he kept everyone else, plus he was getting on his nerves) and when he awoke, there stood Eve. But Eve was NOTHING like Adam. He couldn't believe it. She was his opposite, but she completed him in every way he felt empty before meeting her. Funny.. How just Eve was enough. But she was enough because she was right. God could've brought out Stacey, or Amy.. But Eve was chosen for a reason. She was the right one. Obviously she was put to test Adam on what the right woman to the right man can do.. They just happened to do "wrong". But see the influence. He wasn't even tempted until she brought it up. Whatever. This is just how I see it. I'm not quoting the bible. Ever since then.. Men can't be without women, even if they can't keep a woman for long, they'll always have their mother, who is a woman (if living).
From here on I'm speaking to the men. So I'm referring this to you as a man.. And I want you to tell me, when you're done.. What you think of my observation.
I think I realize where alot of y'all go wrong. You have the capability to be the greatest leader of your pack, but somebody gotta have your back.. Who better to have your back than a woman? She already completes you biologically, and a good woman, the right woman can make you unstoppable. But you as a man can get distracted and fooled by visuals.. And women con artists are alive and thriving, they appear to be a certain way, usually perfect for you.. and then, you realize she's wrong too late in the game.. You think you cut your ties, clean.. but making up for the losses tend to ruin a man.
You or someone you may know has actually encounte(red) this..
Take this walk with me over a 5 year journey.. You starting out your 5 year life plan.. You got some money you can flip and your foundation is steady enough to get this started, you need one thing, a woman to call your own.. Your grind is gonna become more intense and you need the stability a woman can provide, you have a couple prospects and you pick your girl.. You sweating her, she's everything, she so supportive. You treating her so good.. She making you feel good. You're now even more motivated to grind harder you got your woman waiting at home with the goods. So you doing your thing, you focused.. [Grinding is today's hunting. A real man doesn't feel complete if he's not grinding (hunting) for his own.]
She starts forgetting where y'all headed.. She can't understand why you're not doing what you used to do as often as you used to, now she's on you... Interrogating, wanting to get to the bottom of this cause she didn't sign up for this.. You don't understand what's her problem, you out here doing for y'all, but she wants to talk about what you don't do, for her. And it's not about her, it's about y'all, but she doesn't see that. Because she's the wrong girl. The right girl encourages your grind. The harder you grind, the less you can keep up everything you used to do, because you got shit to do. "C'mon baby I love you, you know this." But she doesn't care, she's at your neck accusing you of things you haven't done yet (she knows she isn't the right one, she doesn't feel she completes you, so she feel you do too and went searching).. You start to stray.. You want to avoid that noise. Come home, She giving you the silent treatment is perfect, you don't even want to talk about what she does because you don't understand. So you start to lose focus and build stress.. Still on your grind even with all the bullshit on your mind. On the grind you meet a sweet little side piece. Woo .. She's fine, top of the line. Lol you on her.. Something about her you like, she doing her own thing so she's not pressed about your thing.. You like that. Now part of your focus on her, you still on the grind but you switch to autopilot every now and then.. Now you feeling side, now you gotta focus on covering tracks so wrong girl doesn't find out, cause you think you love her, maybe. Even though she's wrong, you not letting her go (or she won't, I plan on speaking on relationship entrapment soon, that has to stop.) .. So you juggling wrong, side, and the grind .. Meanwhile you trying to enjoy your life.. All work no play never did anyone any good. Cool..
Time passes, you are up my man. You got the juice now. Money flowing, you feeling good, your women are feeling good.. Everything is everything. Granted, a couple months of bliss later.. Side want more now, she ti(red) of playing shadow.. You giving her extra hush money.. Buy her some nice gifts, fuck her good, she still complaining.. So you start to distance yourself, just a bit.. You not trying to hear that shit from wrong, you definitely not trying to hear it from side..
Next 15, that new thang came.. You like her, she looking like new side, cause side acting up and she will get replaced, if needed.. as long as wrong is around, she gonna need an assist. Now keep in mind your tab, you got wrong on full time, side part time, you spend money whenever you take new thang out because you are a man. You got it like that. But all these women are taking from your pockets, not adding to it. So they're already liabilities on your tab, not to mention your bills, gas, vices.. Things in that nature. But your money just as long as your tab. Literally.. So you're not even realizing it. The money is flowing in.. So you feel your grind is paying off, but your grind is now supporting your lifestyle.. You aren't grinding for the goal anymore.. You're grinding just as hard, but your expenses are piling up. And none of your bitches are checking you.. Only to tell you when the rent due, or when they're going shopping or the salon... Then just as you about to figure shit out... Everything crumbles.
Wrong finds out about side, new thang finds out about wrong.. Side outside telling you to come outside and you sitting there counting the losses from the night before... Everybody leaving. Not before the drama of course... Which only frustrates you.. If your focus was off before.. It doesn't even know where the target is.. You fucking up, you're fucked up.. These bitches are getting on your last nerve. You cut them all off, you're fed the fuck up.. You need to clear your mind. You look up and its 5 years later. You're nowhere near finishing your plans.. Time and money gone. And now you're all fucked up emotionally cause you're without a woman and even the randoms you fuck/allow to sleep over cause you lonely doesn't fill the void.. But you're a man.. So you ignore it. And you get back on your grind... Some try again searching for the actual right one, some take the multiple hoes route without heavy commitment, but without emotionally investing into a woman you will never access the power the woman can bring to you that you so instinctively crave..
The right woman in a mans ear is unstoppable. The right woman supposed to check you when you're slipping, making sure you know where you're going in case you forgot honey. :) Shes understanding because she matches your grindd.. the right woman is encouraging and fulfilling to a man on all the levels he needs to fully prosper in life. Problem is, alot of men pick the wrong women at the worst times. And it's fucks them up more than when we choose wrong men, as a woman, damsel in distress role pays off. No one pities a weak man.
So men are dismantled by dealing with the wrong women and waste so much time and energy. Men are the best jugglers. But juggling women is only to make up all the factors that you would prefer to exist in one woman.. But you can't find her.. But you're gonna juggle these bitches until you get ti(red) of juggling, drop them or they want to leave.. But that's a circus act and you're no clown right? You want to grind and build your kingdom, so you have to get the right woman.. Who truly understands your grind and is nothing but an asset all around the board (Queen). Real men don't take money from women, they can get that on their own. What we provide to them is worth more than money.. We provide the encouragment, love, affection, and as well as companionship. We help them understand emotion (this why we're more patient), and they help us with logic.. Thats the trade off.. It's crazy how you can be with someone and feel alone together.. Like you're one. That's how it should feel when it's right. And when it's wrong, catch it early.. Don't let these bitches catch you slipping.. They will ruin you. I am a woman, I knowww, I've seen the side of woman world the dog bitches try so hard to hide from y'all. Don't think it can't happen to you.. Unless you got the right woman already than you're good.. Prosper good man, prosper. I tell yall cause i care about you as men. I want more men to prosper. But they need to pick better women. Plenty out here man.. Don't think there's not.
I wish you the sight to see through these shady little whores trying to ruin mankind and the sight to see the right woman when she crosses your path. God bless men.
